Rhymes with vagina
Three John Jay High School juniors photographed outside their school in Lewisboro, NY, after a news conference detailing their suspension from classes for using the word vagina in a recitation of ‘The Vagina Monologues’ in school the week before.
From left are Hannah Levinson, Megan Reback and Elan Stahl. (AP -The Journal News, Ricky Flores)
Okay, so the word “vagina” caught my attention while scanning through Abandoned Stuff by Saskboy’s blog.
Immediately what came to mind was the many times on my travels when I said I came from Regina, Saskatchewan, I received a shocked look and had to repeat that I did not say vagina, but Regina.
But back to Saskboy’s post which sums up the flurry of debate caused by these students uttering the word vagina out loud.
What I found interesting on his entry was this:
I challenge every blogger who reads this, to use the word “vagina” in a blog post title today, linking to Debra’s site to give your readers the reason why you’re speaking up for the genital that’s getting the short end of the free speech stick in a New York school.
My quick response to his challenge? As a man with a penis and little knowledge of the vagina, it’s not the word that’s getting the freedom of speech short stick. Vagina is simply the jumping off place for other underlying systemic problems.
I apologize for falling back on the cliche but “do you know where your children are and what they’re doing?”
Here’s my take on the hoohaa brouhaha in context as it played out.
Apparently when the girls auditioned to read an excerpt they were told they could read it as long as they didn’t say the word “vagina”. Wouldn’t anyone with half a clue predict what these honour roll students would do?
The other readings that evening included a student’s original work and the football coach quoting Shakespeare. Not to denigrate the student’s original work which I have not read nor to belittle the genius of Shakespeare’s work, but did the event flyer read something like this?
featuring
► Sally Bush’s original work: “How I Spent My Summer Vacation”
► Football Coach Beaver reading snatches of Shakespeare’s Sonnets
► Hannah Levinson, Megan Reback and Elan Stahl reading an excerpt from Eve Ensler’s play “The (insert this word rhymes with Regina) Monologues”
The principal defends the suspension saying the girls were not being punished for what they read rather for disobeying orders (i.e., his censoring of content). Shake your head Mr. Principal. You’re backpedaling a pretty lame defense. You’re spinning the story away from the action against the girls.
At first glance, if I had children, I might side with the principal’s argument. But that is too easy and lets responsibility fall in the wrong place.
If I was a parent, I’d be checking out the events my children were either participating in or attending. Where’s parental supervision and guidance in all this nonsense?
The issue was important enough for the principal to decide the girls could not say the word vagina. Again, it’s not the word, it’s how a word provides an opportunity for censorship.
The principal had no business making that decision. The event organizers are delinquent in overseeing a program appropriate for their audience. The parents seem absent in knowing what and where their children are doing.
I applaud these young girls for their courage to challenge censorship. I suspect these girls will continue on as honour students and will question the status quo.
It would be a sad day for everyone if our children did not push the envelope to keep those of us in the older generation on our toes. And maybe, as an added benefit, in touch with our genitals too.
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March 7th, 2007 at 6:45:58 PM
s getting the short end of the free speech stick in a New York school. == UPDATE: The following bloggers have taken the Vagina Challenge: Dave Rosie Nicole Tanya Dodos Meghan Liberal AvengerLarryThe Courtesan Connection Late Edition - from Australia Cris Ellie - March 8 post
March 8th, 2007 at 10:02:05 AM
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March 8th, 2007 at 10:48:44 AM
Vagina is good for you
Saskboy is pissed about some girls getting suspended for saying vagina. This is me giving in to his call for arms, along with Tanya, Peter, The Yecart, Nicole, Rosie, Gordo, Larry, Cris, Ellie, Miss Cellania, Dan, and others. I like…
March 10th, 2007 at 12:30:24 AM
I have friends here in Hong Kong who think it is THE most HILARIOUS thing that I am from Moose Jaw and that MJ is so close to a town names Regina….and we know what that rhymes with. *eye roll*
I cut them slack because they are from New Zealand. They like sheep. Nuf said?
March 10th, 2007 at 12:45:42 AM
Nuf said! Glad to know someone else has experienced the “rhymes with” LOL
March 11th, 2007 at 3:02:19 PM
My son has known since the age of seven where babies come from so words like vagina and penis are no mystery to my kids. As a parent I think we all need to give our children reliable accurate information as their questions arise about sex and not bring them up to be adults who are not comfortable with the word penis and vagina.
August 21st, 2007 at 8:04:50 PM
I’m a bit confused. How did the teachers/principal even get involved in this stuff? I wouldn’t have allowed the reading at all from that text. In fact, I don’t know any teachers or administrator who would have allowed it. You KNOW you can’t win. You’re right: they were going to say it. But there were so many ways to avoid this whole situation if you have a bit of humor ready.
Your post is great, enjoyable. Glad I caught it.